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Most of the time when your girlfriend dumps you...it's not her, it's you. Guys, we're some of the dumbest oafs around when it comes to relationships, and we're always doing SOMETHING wrong. Girls may not be the easiest creatures to understand, and relationships with them can be a bit difficult to manage...but really if you can figure out your problems you can solve them. That's why I'm writing this for you, as a friendly man-to-man resource for a few of the things we frequently do that tick our ladies off and make them want to leave. Sure there are women nice enough to painstakingly list off our every faults for us, but not every guy is so lucky as to have one. Not to worry, bro...I will help you through this madness. 1) Number one thing that women hate about guys is that they just don't pay attention to their ladies. Sure she talks a lot, but it's USUALLY a good idea to listen to her. Even if she's talking about things that make absolutely no sense to you, you need to pay attention to her and act like you understand. If she doesn't get constant attention when she's speaking, somehow you don't love her. That can be a little tricky sometimes though...too much attention and she'll think you're an obsessed freak who collects strands of her hair and rolls them into little balls and puts them in a locked chest. Obviously this is an impression you want to avoid, so finding that balance is essential. Best advice is to just listen to her. Like, actually listen. She'll TELL you what she wants. Usually. 2) Women have a term they use that as far as I can tell doesn't really mean much. The term is "emotionally supportive," and as best as I can cipher it basically refers to a man who can read women's minds and know exactly what they want you to do or say at all the right times to make her feel loved. Basically they need a guy who listens well enough to know her as well as she knows herself. There are a privileged few in the world of men who come by this talent naturally. I hate those scumbags, as I'm not one of them. If you're like me, it requires a lot of attention and devotion to really pick up on all the little clues they give you as to exactly what they want. Really, if you can perfect item number 1, you can probably do okay with this one. 3) Women really kinda hate it when guys cheat on them, even if some of these same girls would gladly cheat on their guys. Of course we all realize this is a no-no, and wouldn't be too happy if our girls cheated on us...but sometimes we either have a momentary lapse of stupidity, or we don't realize what exactly constitutes "cheating" in the female mind. You don't have to have sex with another woman to be "cheating." A lot of the time all it takes is a single look of appreciation at another woman's finer physical "assets" for your girlfriend to take offense. Even fantasies about pornstars or celebrities can be a no-no, it just depends on the girlfriend. Best and safest bet is to forget that other girls exist, and think like they're just other guys who look different. 4) When you're living with a woman, helping around the house can become a sore point...she expects you to do it, and you don't want to. I understand not wanting to get up and clean stuff or take out the trash, but you have to really consider whether or not it's worth ticking your girlfriend off. Take my advice...just get up off your lazy butt and do a few chores. So how does this help you if you've already broken up with her? Well, once you can identify the things you've done wrong in the past, you can start working to avoid doing them in the future. Whether it's with your now-ex-girlfriend or with a new woman, you'll be much less likely to make her leave again if you can keep from making these idiot classic "guy" blunders.
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